Tuesday, November 13, 2012

OPINIONATED

I am not ok at all with teen pregnancies, and girls getting pregnant either without being married, or without the boyfriend in their lives -- at a young age, that is.

I see many girls getting pregnant right out of high school, and frankly, it sickens me! Some of these girls are so immature, and they think that they know everything. They act like hot shit because they're pregnant, and think that for some reason they're growing up the right way. Mind you, I don't believe that my way is necessarily the right way, but get real... Having a child is perhaps the most important decision a person can make. I don't think some people understand that it means growing another human being inside of her. It means going through hours of labor, and after that, raising a child for its entire life.

I personally feel that this is not the right way to grow up. If I were to get pregnant right now, it'd be a mistake. I'm not married, my education is not finished, I am selfish, I can barely take care of myself, and I don't have a job. I feel that education takes precedence over everything. Without an education, I am not capable of much. The same cannot be said about many people, because some people possess natural skills. I, however, am not one of those people. I feel a need to learn, and attain multiple degrees to pursue my dream job.

I'm not saying that a person needs to be married to have a baby. I'm not saying that at all. The father of the baby, however, should want to be involved in the child's life. The father should be around. How can someone idealize being a single parent? I could never.

I really just don't understand why many girls have babies when the father doesn't want to be present, or if their lives are not even stable. Many are still in school and they decide that having a child won't delay their own progress. Well, that's usually not the case.

A child should grow up in a stable setting. Having a baby doesn't instantly make a person mature. It forces one to mature faster, and really grow up, but how can a baby take care of a baby? It doesn't make sense to me.

Some girls are too stupid, and I am afraid for future generations. Eugenics, please.

(I'm kidding about the eugenics.)

E